Posted by Karen Wild on Sunday, December 6th, 2009

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How to Help “Scaredy Dogs” cope with christmas

Fearful Dogs expert Debbie Jacobs writes a heartfelt piece about keeping your fearful dog calm and relaxed through the Christmas period.

Life with a fearful dog requires additional management to ensure that our pets are kept safe and as stress free as possible. There are simple steps that an owner can take to help make the holidays a time of joy and happiness for everyone.

Be sure that your dog has a ‘safe’ space to retreat to.

As much as we might want our dogs to be involved with all aspects of our lives, for the shy, nervous or fearful dog, being in the thick of things only adds to their anxiety. Before the holidays designate a place for your dog where it can be undisturbed and comfortable. For some dogs a crate or mat in the corner of the living room might suffice. Others may need to be further away from the festivities. Good things should happen in this space, marrow bones are chewed, meals are eaten, treats are shared, stuffed toys are disemboweled. Do this well before the holidays so your dog can learn to feel good in their safe space.

Research boarding kennels before the holiday rush

If you must board your dog during the holidays be sure that the staff understand your dog’s needs. Be specific as to how you want your dog handled, do not assume that kennel staff know how to interact with scared dogs. Draping something over their kennel door might be comforting to your pet. Bring your dog to the site several times before leaving them, make it a positive experience for them with treats and games. Medications and other calming options might be appropriate here as well.

Discuss medication options with a vet.

For dogs that are afraid of people, having celebrating guests around, even if they ignore the dog, can be stressful. There are medications that can be used situationally to help your dog feel less anxious. If your dog does feel anxious while people are around it will only reinforce that feeling and make it more likely to occur again in the future. There are other calming options available that do not require a prescription from the vet, experiment with these to find ones that help your dog.

Take advantage of the turkey.

Giving your dog a tasty tidbit each time the doorbell rings, or someone comes into your home can go a long way toward changing how your dog feels about new arrivals.

A happy and safe holiday season to you all!

Competition

Yesterday’s winner of My dog thinks he’s human was Amber, and the winner of My Cat is ignoring me was Barabara, Congratulations!

Debbie has kindly donated a copy of her e-book ‘Guide to Fearful Dogs’ to our mini-hamper!

Additionally, every person adding a comment today with their email address will receive a special money off voucher code for a reduction off the price of this brilliant book from $14.95 down to $9.95 a copy. Go to www.fearfuldogs.com

I give my personal recommendation as this book is exceptionally well researched in the field of fearful dogs and will be a big support and help to many owners.

Karen

11 Responses to “Fearful Dogs”

  1. My woofs are pretty confident, but sometimes xmas day can get too much for George (he finds strange people a bit overwhelming sometimes). We will have special xmas theme frozen Kongs for him, to keep him occupied. The Kongs also helps ease the guilt of feeling like he’s being left out….he LOVES salmon sandwich paste, so I know he’ll be happy emptying that.

    Posted by @k9_kirsty on the December 6th, 2009
  2. My 3 pups are OK. One of them was slightly fearful when first adopted, but she is much improved.
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    Posted by Dianne Houghtaling on the December 6th, 2009
  3. Jess is a fearful dog, but mostly her fears are around sounds like thunder and fireworks. Poppy does not like strange people, but we don’t have anyone the dogs have not met before visit, so no anxieties there. They seem to really enjoy Christmas with all the extra attention!
    Debbie has given me excellent advice on Twitter to help with Jess’s sound phobias and I highly recommend her methods, as Jess is now much better with thunder than she was before.

    Posted by Anne Greensmith on the December 6th, 2009
  4. The crate is the best thing I ever bought and Mika has really benefitted from it.

    Love reading @fearful dogs advice,its helped me calm mika down a bit with different things :o )

    Posted by Natz on the December 6th, 2009
  5. I have three dogs – a lurcher & 2 greyhounds. Whereas Mina (lurcher) and Stevie are confident, Jasper can be quite timid & fearful when confronted with new situations.

    He’s much better in the house now – as I’ve used treats around new situations etc. He’s still very fearful when we meet people when walking and it takes time and patience to deal with a fearful dog.

    @fearfuldogs advice certainly helps and Jasper is improving all the time.

    Posted by @Sukesu on the December 6th, 2009
  6. Tess is fearful of storms & fireworks, and Ty is fearful out of the house. However, it’s not an issue at Xmas, as we are going out for dinner, and if we have visitors over the Xmas period, the dogs have somewhere to go if they don’t want to join in.

    Posted by Sue B. on the December 6th, 2009
  7. Very good & helpful advice.Luckily not needed personally at the moment but do know people who could benefit.

    Posted by hilsofhove on the December 6th, 2009
  8. Toby was badly treated in his first home before being rescued by Dogs Trust and introduced to us. He had many fears that they have advised us on and DAP collars have helped too. Now, 1 year after his adoption we love to watch him enjoying life and making progress but strangers can still unsettle him so we will follow the advice on this page. Thanks.

    Posted by Sarah on the December 6th, 2009
  9. We’re taking Mollie’s soft crate with us to the in-laws at Xmas, so she can hide away when it all gets noisy, and have somewhere to “go to bed” when we’re eating. We’ve found that simply taking a familiar dog blanket or the soft crate with us when we go visiting, or even to the pub, makes the whole experience much calmer and less traumatic.

    In fact, if we take her to a pub and haven’t got a blanket, she gets to sleep in one of our coats and is always happy and relaxed.

    Posted by cyberemma on the December 6th, 2009
  10. Our dogs Holly and Vinnie aren’t too bad over the festive period – they love the turkey bits and the presents, but they will still be able to get away from it all in their hideaway. Mainly because of the fireworks that will undoubtedly be going off over Christmas and new year! We use a childs beach pop up tent filled with our old comfy duvet and pillows, with a big wooly throw over the top to help make them feel even safer – they love it, and we have a job getting them out of it when it’s time to put it away!

    Posted by Miss Faye Billington on the December 6th, 2009
  11. I am excited to get Debbie’s new ebook. I didn’t know it was available. I have learned so much from Debbie already by following @fearfuldogs on Twitter. My older dog Siggie who is 11 has become much more nervous. If there is too much going on she is better off in the corner of the room where she can see what is going on but with a little distance.

    Posted by wvterry on the December 7th, 2009

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